Jamie Foster

Jamie Foster came to trans safety advocacy through necessity. After experiencing harassment and unsafe situations during their own early dating experiences as a trans woman, Jamie became determined to build the kind of practical safety resources they wished had existed for them.

Starting with a small blog and a YouTube channel, Jamie built a following of tens of thousands of trans people seeking honest, practical guidance on staying safe while dating — both online and in person. Their work covers everything from identifying red flags and chasers on dating apps, to vetting potential dates, to having difficult disclosure conversations safely, to building support networks that make dating less isolating.

Jamie has since expanded into one-on-one dating coaching, working with trans clients to build confidence, establish healthy boundaries, and develop dating strategies that prioritize both safety and genuine connection. Their coaching approach is direct, compassionate, and deeply informed by the reality of what trans people actually face in the dating world.

Jamie is a proud trans woman and lives in the Pacific Northwest, where she is an active member of her local LGBTQ+ community.